Friday, November 6, 2009

Being Pregnant at Work

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Being pregnant doesn't mean finishing work in our modern world. It does, however, require consideration of the possible challenges that you will face as a pregnant worker. From needing to be aware of the risks to unborn children from handling chemicals and dangerous items, to understanding how fatigue, weight changes, and nutritional needs will impact your work day, knowing in advance how much you might be impacted will help you to plan a successful, continued stretch on the job before the baby arrives.

Steps

  1. Decide when to tell people. It is generally regarded as safe to tell people that you're pregnant at the end of the first trimester. At this point, the possibility of miscarriages are greatly reduced and the obviousness of you pregnancy will start to become clear, depending on your body physique. On the other hand, if you suffer from severe morning sickness troubles, you will have little choice but to inform your employer of the pregnancy so that they are both understanding of your frequent trips to the bathroom, and can make arrangements to help you out where needed.
  2. Realize that it's going to be changeable. There will be some days when you feel fantastic and other days when you can barely keep your eyes open. The changing hormones will impact your moods and there may be some impact on your ability to concentrate, although that is fairly dependent on your own personality type (as well as your level of interest in the job). Don't be surprised to find that you have less interest in your work than you might have expected; some women find that pregnancy is a wake-up call about their feelings for a job that they haven't enjoyed for some time. For other women, however, the pregnancy makes it very clear that they love their job and want their baby, so plans for juggling both start immediately!
  3. Think about when you will finish work and go on maternity leave. Some women work until the due date, with never a worry or problem arising. Other women find that it is best to take off time prior to the birth to allow for preparation, rest, and to also accommodate some of the less enjoyable aspects of pregnancy such as increased weight, back pain, deep tiredness, and forgetfulness or worry. When you are working out when to leave work, it is very important that you take your own stress levels into consideration because your stress can impact the growing baby. A little extra time off now can make all the difference in a more settled baby later. On the other hand, if the thought of staying at home doing nothing but worrying and pacing terrifies you, remaining at work might be the best choice for you. Another suitable compromise might be to continue working from home; email and internet access make this a very acceptable option these days.
  4. Eat well. Keep mini snack packs at work filled with nutritionally excellent food. Fresh fruit, dried fruit, nuts, crackers, cheese, milk or non-dairy drinks, good quality water, herbal teas, etc. are good selections to have to hand. Try to avoid snacking on high sugar, low quality foods. These give neither you nor the baby the needed nutrition but they will layer on the weight and contribute to feeling tired.
  5. Give yourself lots of positive pep talks. Try to keep to a normal routine and when nausea, pains, aches, and the increasing stomach zone start to get you down, remind yourself that you'll get through and that both the baby and the job are important to you. Don't feel guilty about needing to take more frequent breaks or sit down more often; just do whatever needs to be done to keep going.
  6. Don't stay late. Even if it has been your habit to work late prior to the pregnancy, this change is essential. You'll be tired enough without losing precious sleeptime and even just rest time at home in a comfortable environment.
  7. Keep your baby growing woes to yourself or your work friends. Your colleagues are not interested in tales of swollen ankles, distended bellies, and throwing up. It's not workplace relevant and it isn't going to cut ice if you spend a lot of time complaining, or worst still, using your pregnancy as a reason for not getting work done on time. If you are experiencing a rough pregnancy, give thought as to whether it is worth remaining at work at all, or ask the boss for lighter duties for a time. Remember – pregnancy at work is still under scrutiny no matter how many equal opportunity laws are in place. It is very important not to make people feel that by letting you continue to work that this is a hardship being visited on you, or that your tiredness is the fault of the job.
  8. Keep away from harmful substances. If you work in an industry that handles chemicals, find out immediately what impacts unborn babies. Chemicals that can impact fetal growth are a real concern. Find out what your company's knowledge of this and policies about pregnancy are. In some companies, pregnant women are shifted to other duties not involving chemicals handling, for the duration of the pregnancy and lactation. This will only be the case, however, if your workplace is aware of the potential for a problem. Do your own research and raise any issues directly with the boss to ensure your baby's health.

Tips

  • Know your legal rights in relation to work and pregnancy, as well as return to work after pregnancy. This will help you to plan your life better, as well as providing you with reassurance about the security of your position.

Warnings

  • Get your health professional's advice when you are worried about the potential for aspects of your work impacting on the baby's health; do your research but also ensure that a qualified person canvases your concerns thoroughly. Your doctor can be your best ally.
  • Be aware that small business owners are sometimes unscrupulous and try to flout employment laws that provide protection for pregnant women's jobs. If you find yourself in the unfortunate position of being fired as a result of being pregnant, seek immediate legal advice, or go to the government department responsible for labor laws in your country.
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15 comments.:

GL said...

Here's another perspective: Vhemt.Org

Marika said...

I have a better perspective for sick people like that: why not commit suicide and be done with it?

GL said...

Well, because committing suicide doesn't get "done with it". It doesn't change a thing. It's going to take policies at least like China's to fix this.

Look, seriously, there is nothing sick about this. Read: Why Big Fierce Animals Are Rare

Overpopulation is the biggest problem the world has, and it dwarfs every other problem. Nobody wants to talk about it, because everyone wants to have children, but that's precisely the problem to start with. Sadly however, problems seldom go away just because people don't like them.

I'm not blaming your for having children. Do what you want, I'll (luckily!) be dead before the problem becomes catastrophic, but your children probably won't be. But the biosphere will not handle the anticipated growth. There is going to big problems starting with the next generation...

- GL

Marika said...

Another comment that I've deleted by mistake, gladly I kept my emails.
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Richard has left a new comment on your post "Being Pregnant at Work":

Maybe GL will follow that perspective :)

Marika said...

GL, I disagree with all that you wrote. And it has nothing to do with me having another baby.

I know one person; she is maybe 2 years older then me. She was tutoring my daughter. Pretty, well educated, working, married, travels every year, no children. Her brother works with me and I asked him once why she does not have any children. I could not ask her this question directly.
So he told me that she believes that it’s a shame to bring children into this world full of injustice, misery, hunger, wars, etc.

I was shocked. I thought she is crazy. I still think so. I don’t understand why she herself enjoys every aspect of this world if she dislikes it so much? Why she buys nice clothes? Why she eats in restaurants? Why she tutors other kids to get more cash? Why she visited Disney Land?

I can ask more questions but the real question is: why one thinks that he/she has a right to decide that another person should not get his/her chance to enjoy life?

Marika said...

"A woman without children is like a tree without leaves." (a Chadian proverb)

GL said...

We really don't know what death is, and it's a wild assumption to assume that it's the same thing as as not being born. Recommending suicide is based to those who favour populations controls is based on this erroneous assumption. It's not just mean spirited, it's logically unsound.

Your observation about your friend who doesn't want children but is yet seems to like children and tutors, etc. is by my experience the norm not the exception. It's always considerate, empathic, caring people that don't want children (or rather, that's the way it seems to me). And why would they/we? We care about the people already born! It doesn't matter to us if it's "your" child or "my" child.

People just don't want to face a simple fact: if we all have kids the way we're having them, first of all, our children's lives are going to be terrible as the biosphere's capability to sustain us deteriorates and then, baring any change, the human race as we know it will die out.

Any decision to have children, in my view, has to be reconciled with this fact.

And again: no hard feelings. It's your personal choice. I totally respect your right to that choice. This is not my problem, since I've already solved it for myslef. I'm not having children. It's you that has to worry about this since you have children.

- GL

GL said...

And this...

"I can ask more questions but the real question is: why one thinks that he/she has a right to decide that another person should not get his/her chance to enjoy life?"...

Deserves a separate reply.

This is really silly Marika! By that argument people should should have not just the number of children they want but the maximum they are capable of. If we did that, in that very generation, most of those kids would starve to death.

That's just cruel and selfish to the extreme.

Marika said...

Quote: We care about the people already born!

Wow, GL! I did not expect this! I don't even know what to say.

Ohh, wait, I know what to say:

Qoute: That's just cruel and selfish to the extreme.

Marika said...

My point is not about how many children one decides to have. It's about making a decision not to have any.

Marika said...

This is really silly Marika!

Respect GL, you are on my blog here.

GL said...

So you think recommending I commit suicide is respectful but calling one of your comments silly (a comment, not you just your comment!) is disrespectful?

If you don't like it, don't publish it.

Marika said...

I think that's what I'll do. You are stubborn, rude, disrespectful.

Paul Milovanov said...

Having children is such an emotional issue that we will never have the majority voluntarily start thinking about personally challenging their gut feeling about having kids (which is to have them). Only when we get much farther, after the first-world country isolation barrier is no longer able to buffer us here from the real effects of overpopulation, and the misery and effects of resource wars hit home, will we have the by-then police states of western countries step in and impose seemingly draconian restrictions. And everybody will feel bad. That's the human way. (Hopefully countries like China will keep being smarter than the hypocritic first-world and will keep gently revving up the already existing policies)

Richard said...

Actually fertility rates are declining. Not just in the first world but elsewhere. See the recent Economist:

http://www.economist.com/displaystory.cfm?story_id=14743589

Also see this interesting blog concerning demographic problems in Georgia:

http://demographymatters.blogspot.com/2008/08/georgian-mess.html

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